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Three years ago in June 2003, Mukhtar Mai was gang raped in Pakistan. This attack was allegedly ordered by a village elder. Mukhtar Mai took legal action, drawing attention to the humiliation she faced. The world was shocked by the case, yet the most shocking fact to arise was the fact that Mai’s rape case was not a one off attack, there are many more women in Pakistan and India who are abused in many ways, yet they will not speak up.

Many of the attacks on women are based upon the honour-and-shame cultures that exist in both India and Pakistan, bringing shame onto ones family is seen to be the worst thing a woman can do. The rape of Mukhtar Mai was described as a ‘honour rape’, not because SHE had bought shame upon her family but instead her attack was provoked as revenge for Mai’s brother been seen with a woman from a different caste. Shockingly Mai’s rapists were acquitted of the rape charge, it is only now that the Pakistani Supreme Court has suspended the acquittals and there is a chance for justice.

It is now that we should attempt to raise awareness of how little progress has been made to gain equal rights for females in India and Pakistan. It has been reported that for women in these countries, rather than reporting rapes, the best option for them is suicide, as the number of arrests and convictions do not match the number of reported cases. In some reported cases the victim is harassed rather than supported. The government is too worried about the woman making them look bad than bringing justice and arresting the rapist.

Rape is not the only form of abuse these woman face; there have been reports of women being burned alive by their mother-in-laws, or violently abused by their husbands/fathers, and the law turns a blind eye as the torture and abuse of these women has been ordered for honorary reasons. Therefore it is our job now to raise awareness of the abuse these women face and to do what we can to help. Mai’s court case is one step forward, though to us this may seem to be a small step, in the eyes of women in Pakistan and India it is a large step, women may now feel like they can report attacks without feeling that they are fighting a losing battle.

Article by Sharon Rai