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Boy Problems? 

 Well you’re not the only one. Many girls are having problems with their men; some are a lot worse than others. You may think you’re deeply in love and he’s definitely the one you want to marry but face it: if he’s treating you badly there’s not point in staying with him. No matter how much you might be in love, if he’s not treating you right, you need to get out of the relationship as quickly as possible. It may be hard, but it’s the best thing you can do for yourself. Every girl deserves to be with someone who is treating her right.  

 How to Ditch Your Man 101

Yes it might sound mean, however, for some people, when it comes to dumping their boyfriend they just don’t know how to do it nicely. Just because you might not keep in contact with them after doesn’t mean you have to leave on a bad note. Who knows?  He might actually sort himself out in the future and there could be the possibility of hooking back up. 

How To / Tips 

1.     Do it face to face.  Yes, you got it.  That means not over the phone or by texting! 

2.     Relax!  You’re doing the right thing. 

3.     Start off by telling him what the problem is.  Make it clear that you’re ending it. He might try to convince you not to but stand your ground.  

4.     Tell him what kind of relationship you desire to have; friends, acquaintances etc.

5.     Listen to what he has to say; respect his feelings. 

6.     After its all done don’t sob over it. That’s the worse thing you could do. Go out and have a bit of fun with your girls!  

Bad Break Up? 

 

So he didn’t think about your feelings. Well don’t get all depressed, that’s the biggest no no! You might need to have a few good cries to let it all out. If you’re in need of a shoulder to cry on find someone you trust one hundred percent, and will be there for you no matter what. Don’t sob for too long. Learn from the past relationship and move on to the next. It might not be easy to move on to the next one but try to meet new people. You may just want to be single for a while and enjoy doing you own thing and focus on yourself and your future. 

By Manpreet